50 Shades of 421st

 

Since we have such a diverse group here and  many of us have read the books, I thought I'd ask where do you stand on the grey scale? And does vanilla count as a shade of grey?

When it comes to "romance" do you tend to take the lead?

Do you prefer someone else to take charge?

Perhaps a little of both or neither or do you stand back while another woman approaches your 2 grooving women on the dance floor leaving you standing there like a cuck? Hey, we don't judge here. OK. We do but if that's who you are......ALWAYS BE YOURSELF!